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Some people in this world walk around like kings. They do not care about what others think about them, and they act as if they are the higher authority than everyone else. You have probably ran into these type of people already, if not, more than once or twice. And you were likely stuck with them in a room.

These people disguise themselves in business suits or very expensive apparel, and they are usually on their phone talking loudly and abruptly. They want their presence known. I?m not so sure why it?s these kinds of people that are the ones who talk so loudly. Maybe it?s their success that makes them think they have a right to?

While I have no clue, I can definitely tell you that the small little people around these often tall businessmen would do anything to get them to pipe down.

So why don?t they? Why don?t these ordinary inferior looking people just go up to the tall, well dressed, superior business guy? It?s a matter of telling the obnoxiously loud speaking man to lower down his volume. Seems simple enough, right?

The Truth

Wrong.

Most of these people cannot do such unheard of actions because there is lack of confidence. With lack of confidence comes with fear.

No one wants to go up to the superiority dressed businessman and tell him to pipe down. After all, the worst thing that can happen is that he says no (loudly in fact), and most are afraid of hearing no?s from what I?ve seen. So they don?t bother trying.

On the other hand, the business man is full of confidence. And loud of course. The louder he is, the more confidence he holds.

But the more important thing to grasp is that he has confidence that makes others intimidated, and that gives him the upper hand of belief that he holds the most authority around him, like a king.

This is probably the most desirable trait to learn from these people. No, I don?t mean trying to raise your speaking volume?although you can make it your desirable attribute, but I?m talking about getting the next best thing: confidence.

Where Confidence Takes You

These people are able to look like rich superior being, talk loud whenever they feel like it, and act like how they want, whenever they want, because they don?t care about what others think, and they don?t fear anything at all.

These people are the ones that get what they demand in life. It is anything that they can imagine. Whether it is dating whoever they set their intimidating eyes on, treating whoever?however they feel like treating, and overall, getting things the way they like it in life. They are very good at being superior. Let?s not forget about how loud they can get during at times as well.

Yes, perhaps their life revolves around them and they are enjoying every last seconds of it. What?s there not to enjoy? They don?t care about what others think about them, and they certainly do it on purpose to intentionally annoy you because they want to.

More importantly, what makes these people not give a crap and act so confidence? Because they see results that they want by acting so. You have been taken advantage of when they talked loudly over your so-called quiet environment.

Liberian: Shhhhh! This is the library.

Person who doesn?t give a crap: I don?t give a crap!

Unless you stood up and told these individuals to lower their volume, he took advantage of you by taking your every quiet, precious second to disrupt your quiet little world. While you were there, standing like an annoyed, angry, fed-up individual, you probably overheard his conversation too. Good. That?s his intention as well.

How was his conversation by the way? You must have been envying at the way he handles his business closings huh?

So are you tired of overhearing about how great these people have it? If so, do something about it by showing your confidence, because life revolves around it. Get your kind of respect and results that you want by demanding it.

What?s there not to like about it? You get to do things on your own terms, do what you feel like, and just anything that you can almost imagine. Yes, speaking loudly too.

The only reason you?re letting those predominant imperious individual talk over you is because you fear. The first step to overcoming this is to be the librarian who ?shh? them. But you need to take it overboard than just a simple ?shh?. Simply because you are indeed more superior to a librarian. Feels good doesn?t it?

So let?s start over a bit from what we have gathered.

You were at first an ordinary person. Perhaps the kind that never gets things your way. Then you slowly became a librarian, and grew some confidence along the way to let out a few small ?shh?. Soon enough you learn that other words exist, and they just as equally mean ?shh, but even better.

• Level one: Hello? You are a little loud; can you please lower your volume?
• Level two: Hi minster, a little loud over here, can you keep it down?
• Level three: HEY, pipe down; you?re too loud over here!
• Level four: HEY $*%@head, you know how $((#@($@# loud you are? Shut the #%( up!!

Note: I don?t condom level four, but if you have the confidence to do so, then hey, I?d say why not!

By witnessing being the soft individual that you once were and learning from this article, you can still be respected and have courtesy. But who?s to know when you get there, because by then you may not give a crap anymore.

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